How To Handl Love

mrayedy · 02-12-2007

HANDLING LOVE

If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be
gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just
didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.

If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love her/him,
feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse
the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel
the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another, and she falls in love with you, and then
love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, Let it
go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.

Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can
really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life.
Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.

Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.
Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit.
Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.

This is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love,
they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty
places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as
something that flows to them rather than from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love
cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone
who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love. They
forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be
made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own
seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or
coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it
arrives and give it away when it comes to you.

But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your
lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.
Love always has been and always will be a mystery.

Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.
Don't deny love just only you don't want to be hurt...

IF YOU KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN, IT WILL COME AGAIN.

Marvellous Girl · 02-12-2007

Wow

Now that's what i'm talking about

That was Great Subject Sweety

And i liked this part in particular

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Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own
seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or
coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it
arrives and give it away when it comes to you.

****
Thanx for this beautiful sharing

Hope you'll like these lines

Love leads to laughter

Love leads to pain

When you by my side i feel good times again

Never have i feel this feeling before

You showed me the world

How can i ask for more

Keep Publishing a Good Stuff like this

Sincerely
NOOR

Isabelle · 02-13-2007

Well ,Mrayedy

I thought I'm going to read a sharing that makes me laugh

with your nice jokes that make us smile

But truely this is a wonderful one and it says facts

about the lovely feeling the love

Sure we all wish to love and beloved in return

but this doesn't happen with all of us

Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life
Don't deny love just only you don't want to be hurt

I do agree with this

Thanx alot for the very cute sharing

And happy Valentine

**دمــ ع ــة قــ م ــر** · 02-13-2007

Mrayedy

That was by far the wisest thing I ever read about love

Every word is true, though painful sometimes

Love has its own mystery and whoever tries to reveal it fails terribly

I thank you from my heart for enlightening me

Happy Valentine's Day to you and to all

mrayedy · 02-15-2007

dear friends
many thanks for the encourgment

happy valentine happy valentine happy valentine

02-12-2007	#1
mrayedy «©»عاشق مبتدئ«©» تاريخ الانضمام: Aug 2006 المشاركات: 173	How To Handl Love HANDLING LOVE If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart. If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love her/him, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different. If you fall in love with another, and she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, Let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time. Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can. This is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them. The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away. Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life. Don't deny love just only you don't want to be hurt... IF YOU KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN, IT WILL COME AGAIN. __________________

02-13-2007	#3
Isabelle ملاك المنتدى تاريخ الانضمام: Aug 2006 محل السكن: lebanese lives in Australia المشاركات: 16,524	Well ,Mrayedy I thought I'm going to read a sharing that makes me laugh with your nice jokes that make us smile But truely this is a wonderful one and it says facts about the lovely feeling the love Sure we all wish to love and beloved in return but this doesn't happen with all of us Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life Don't deny love just only you don't want to be hurt I do agree with this Thanx alot for the very cute sharing And happy Valentine __________________

02-13-2007	#4
دمــ ع ــة قــ م ــر نبع الحرف تاريخ الانضمام: Feb 2006 محل السكن: عالم غريب المشاركات: 28,487 المواضيع المدونه: 1	Mrayedy That was by far the wisest thing I ever read about love Every word is true, though painful sometimes Love has its own mystery and whoever tries to reveal it fails terribly I thank you from my heart for enlightening me Happy Valentine's Day to you and to all __________________

02-15-2007	#5
mrayedy «©»عاشق مبتدئ«©» تاريخ الانضمام: Aug 2006 المشاركات: 173	dear friends many thanks for the encourgment happy valentine happy valentine happy valentine __________________

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